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<\/figure>\n\n\n\nCu siguran\u021b\u0103, topul c\u0103r\u021bilor de parenting nu ar fi complet f\u0103r\u0103 o publica\u021bie ce surprinde esen\u021bialul din ceea ce orice p\u0103rinte trebuie s\u0103 \u0219tie. Aceast\u0103 oper\u0103 scris\u0103 de Hedvig Montgomery este considerat\u0103 noua biblie \u00een materie de parenting \u00een \u021b\u0103rile nordice deoarece \u00eei ajut\u0103 pe p\u0103rin\u021bi s\u0103 devin\u0103 mai \u00een\u021belep\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 dep\u0103\u0219easc\u0103 momentele dificile \u00een rela\u021bia cu copii lor, men\u021bin\u00e2nd o leg\u0103tur\u0103 foarte str\u00e2ns\u0103 cu cei mici. Parentingul magic<\/a> vorbe\u0219te despre ata\u0219amentul afectiv, st\u0103p\u00e2nirea emo\u021biilor, nevoia de libertate a copiilor, perioadele c\u00e2nd totul merge prost, salvarea rela\u021biei \u0219i a familiei, limite \u0219i consecin\u021be \u0219i lucrul cu propria persoan\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen acest top c\u0103r\u021bi de parenting ne-am g\u00e2ndit s\u0103 includem \u0219i o oper\u0103 ce ar putea o lec\u021bie emo\u021bionat\u0103 pentru p\u0103rin\u021bi. Cartea lui Jacques Salome ne invit\u0103 s\u0103 descoperim incredibila bog\u0103\u021bie a limbajelor prin care copiii \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 se fac\u0103 \u00een\u021bele\u0219i \u0219i s\u0103 se adapteze vie\u021bii. Mami, tati, m\u0103 auzi\u021bi?<\/em><\/a> <\/em>ne arat\u0103 c\u0103 cei mici au o putere magic\u0103 de a se face auzi\u021bi, iar noi, adul\u021bii, trebuie doar s\u0103-i ascult\u0103m prin intermediul emo\u021biilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n F\u0103r\u0103 \u00eendoial\u0103 \u0219i tu te-ai \u00eentrebat \u00een multe situa\u021bii ce g\u00e2nde\u0219te copilul t\u0103u \u0219i de ce are un anumit comportament. Cartea scris\u0103 de Tanith Carey te va ajuta s\u0103 descoperi punctele de cotitur\u0103 prin care trece cel mic \u0219i s\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti cele mai bune solu\u021bii pe care s\u0103 le aplici cu \u00eencredere. Ce g\u00e2nde\u0219te copilul meu?<\/em><\/a> Te va ajuta s\u0103 descifrezi motivele principale de \u00eengrijorarea ale micu\u021bului t\u0103u, izbucnirile lui comportamentale sau cele mai ascunse g\u00e2nduri ale sale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen topul c\u0103r\u021bilor de parenting se afl\u0103 \u0219i o autoare de origine rom\u00e2n\u0103, Ioana Chicet-Macoveiciuc, cu un best-seller foarte bine primit printre p\u0103rin\u021bi. Sarcin\u0103, na\u0219tere, al\u0103ptare, primii ani cu copii mici sau via\u021b\u0103 de cuplu, despre toate vei citi \u00een aceast\u0103 carte ce \u00ee\u021bi deschide ochii spre un nou univers \u00een care ai \u00een grij\u0103 fiin\u021be mici \u0219i adorabile. O s\u0103 te \u021bin \u00een bra\u021be c\u00e2t vrei tu \u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 o secund\u0103<\/em><\/a> <\/em>este o publica\u021bie plin\u0103 de umor, dar \u0219i de informa\u021bii utile cu privire la modul \u00een care putem cre\u0219te copii ferici\u021bi cu respect, limite \u0219i valori, dar f\u0103r\u0103 fric\u0103, pedepse \u0219i umilin\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen cazul \u00een care e\u0219ti \u00een c\u0103utarea unor solu\u021bii care s\u0103 dea roade atunci c\u00e2nd vine vorba de cre\u0219terea \u0219i educarea copilului t\u0103u, atunci afl\u0103 de la Rebecca Eanes ce trebuie s\u0103 faci c\u00e2nd ajungi la cap\u0103tul r\u0103bd\u0103rii. Mai mult ca sigur ai sim\u021bit adesea c\u0103 nu ai niciun control \u00een fa\u021ba acceselor de furie ale micu\u021bului t\u0103u, c\u0103 acesta refuz\u0103 pentru a zecea oar\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceea ce \u00eei ceri sau c\u0103 te cople\u0219esc g\u00e2ndurile negre referitor la viitorul s\u0103u. Ei bine, Parenting pozitiv<\/em><\/a> te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 prive\u0219ti lucrurile altfel \u0219i s\u0103 renun\u021bi la metodele tradi\u021bionale de cre\u0219tere a copiilor. Copiii nu sunt ni\u0219te adul\u021bi mici, a\u0219a c\u0103 nu se pot purta \u00eenadins ca un tiran f\u0103r\u0103 scrupule, iar bebelu\u0219ii nu pot elabora strategiile unui manipulator viclean la doar c\u00e2teva luni de via\u021b\u0103. \u00centr-o lume plin\u0103 de provoc\u0103ri, \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi educi copiii baz\u00e2ndu-te pe ata\u0219ament, respect reciproc, empatie, atitudine proactiv\u0103 \u0219i disciplin\u0103 pozitiv\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Isabelle Filliozat, autoarea c\u0103r\u021bii \u0219i o binecunoscut\u0103 psihoterapeut\u0103 francez\u0103, ofer\u0103 oamenilor mai multe solu\u021bii despre cum se pot \u00een\u021belege, accepta \u0219i ierta. Nu exist\u0103 p\u0103rinte perfect<\/em><\/a> <\/em>este o carte pentru adul\u021bii care ascund multe r\u0103ni vechi, din copil\u0103ria \u0219i tinere\u021bea lor, ce ajung s\u0103 ias\u0103 la lumin\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd devin p\u0103rin\u021bi. Cu to\u021bii ne dorim s\u0103 fim bl\u00e2nzi \u0219i calzi \u00een rela\u021bia cu copii no\u0219tri, dar, din p\u0103cate, via\u021ba ne arat\u0103 c\u0103 nu \u00eentotdeauna suntem capabili de asta. Isabelle Filliozat \u00eencearc\u0103 prin cartea ei s\u0103 ne arate cu empatie \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ne induc\u0103 sentimente de vin\u0103 de ce ne \u00eenfuriem, strig\u0103m, lovim sau pedepsim copiii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sau cum s\u0103 cre\u0219ti un copil fericit, independent \u0219i echilibrat, dezvolt\u00e2ndu-i inteligen\u021ba emo\u021bional\u0103. Cartea scris\u0103 de Shauna Shapiro \u0219i Chis White te vor \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba cum s\u0103 cultivi calit\u0103\u021bi esen\u021biale precum sociabilitatea, \u00eencrederea, bun\u0103tatea, iertarea, vitalitatea \u0219i multe altele, \u00een interiorul copilului t\u0103u. Prin intermediul exemplelor inteligibile \u0219i indistructive, Empatia \u00een parenting<\/em><\/a> distruge stereotipurile \u0219i cli\u0219eele existente \u00een gestionarea emo\u021biilor celor mici, dar \u00ee\u021bi ofer\u0103 \u00een schimb scenarii eficiente pentru diverse situa\u021bii comportamentale complexe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Copiii trebuie s\u0103 creasc\u0103 veseli \u0219i deschi\u0219i ca s\u0103 poat\u0103 face fa\u021b\u0103 sentimentelor negative \u0219i problemelor emo\u021bionale. Orice p\u0103rinte ar trebui s\u0103 ia \u00een considerare acest top c\u0103r\u021bi de parenting dac\u0103 vrea s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 limbajul micu\u021bilor \u0219i s\u0103 se bucure de cea mai frumoas\u0103 perioad\u0103 din via\u021ba lor. C\u0103r\u021bile de parenting ne ajut\u0103 s\u0103 ne preg\u0103tim pentru cele mai frumoase roluri pe care le vom juca \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103, s\u0103 fim mai siguri \u0219i mai \u00een\u021belep\u021bi pentru a le putea ar\u0103ta copiilor o lume pozitiv\u0103, plin\u0103 de empatie \u0219i armonie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Cartea este o binecuvantare pentru parinti intrucat contine explicatii cat mai simple despre crizele de furie ale copiilor, despre momentele in care se bat sau stau imbufnati. Este explicat modul in care functioneaza creierul copilului, emisfera stanga a creierului iubeste si doreste ordinea, este logica, literala, lingvistica (ii plac cuvintele) si liniara (pune lucrurile intr-o ordine). Pe cand emisfera drapta este holistica si nonverbala, iar creierul nostru este specializat in imagini, emotii si amintiri personale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen Creierul copilului tau<\/a>, Daniel J. Siegel, neuropsiholog, \u015fi specialista \u00een consiliere parental\u0103, Tina Payne Bryson, autori ai c\u0103r\u0163ii de succes Inteligen\u021ba Parental\u0103<\/a> <\/em>ne ofer\u0103 o abordare revolu\u0163ionar\u0103 pentru cre\u015fterea copiilor, cu ajutorul a 12 strategii cheie, care \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 o dezvoltare cerebral\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103, ceea ce \u00eei face pe copii mai calmi \u015fi mai ferici\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Este una dintre cele mai la \u00eendem\u00e2n\u0103 unelte care \u00eei ajut\u0103 pe p\u0103rin\u021bi s\u0103 se ancoreze \u00een acest rol ce na\u0219te, uneori, at\u00e2t de multe provoc\u0103ri \u0219i dileme. Chiar dac\u0103 o includem \u00een acest top c\u0103r\u021bi de parenting, cartea vorbe\u0219te despre experien\u021ba a doi oameni din Marea Britanie, care sunt \u0219i p\u0103rin\u021bi. Anna Whitehouse \u0219i Matt Farquharson povestesc despre na\u0219terea \u0219i \u00eengrijirea copilului, momentele lor de panic\u0103 \u0219i \u00eendoial\u0103, pierderea a cinci sarcini ori \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103ri caraghioase din via\u021ba de p\u0103rinte. Parenting de r\u00e2su\u2019-pl\u00e2nsu\u2019<\/em><\/a> <\/em>presupune s\u0103 te amuzi pe seama ta atunci c\u00e2nd jobul full time de a cre\u0219te un copil pare s\u0103 te dep\u0103\u0219easc\u0103 \u00eentruc\u00e2t nimeni nu se poate descurca grozav \u00een treaba aceasta cu parentingul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 \u0219i tu \u021bi-ai pus aceast\u0103 \u00eentrebare, probabil c\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 faci totul ca la carte \u0219i pierzi din vedere nevoia de siguran\u021b\u0103 afectiv\u0103 pe care o au copiii. Scriitoarea Paola Santagostino sus\u021bine \u00een publica\u021bia sa c\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii din zilele noastre simt constant presiunea de a fi perfec\u021bi \u0219i nu reu\u0219esc s\u0103 p\u0103streze echilibrul \u00eentre nevoile lor \u0219i nevoile copilului. Cum s\u0103 cre\u0219ti un copil sigur pe sine<\/em><\/a> te ajut\u0103 s\u0103-i consolidezi autostima odraslei tale ca s\u0103 te asiguri c\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi va fi un adult echilibrat \u0219i senin, f\u0103r\u0103 tulbur\u0103ri de personalitate ori comportamente autodistructive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A fi p\u0103rinte reprezint\u0103 una dintre cele mai frumoase experien\u021be ale vie\u021bii, \u00eens\u0103 acest dar minunat este totodat\u0103 \u0219i o mare provocare. 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Mami, tati, m\u0103 auzi\u021bi?<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n\n\n\n3. Ce g\u00e2nde\u0219te copilul meu?<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n\n\n\n4. O s\u0103 te \u021bin \u00een bra\u021be c\u00e2t vrei tu \u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 o secund\u0103<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n\n\n\n5. Parenting pozitiv<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n\n\n\n6. Nu exist\u0103 p\u0103rinte perfect<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n\n\n\n7. Empatia \u00een parenting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n\n\n\n8. Creierul copilului tau<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n\n\n\n9. Parenting de r\u00e2su\u2019-pl\u00e2nsu\u2019<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n\n\n\n10. Cum s\u0103 cre\u0219ti un copil sigur de sine<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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